Dear Jenny: I am going through such a funk and finding myself at an ultimate self-confidence low. I got divorced from my high school sweetheart almost a year ago, and in turn, I lost all of my “friends.” I feel like my life is totally flipped upside down. I come off as a strong person and pretend that everything is OK, but when I go home I am so alone — and my “friends with benefits” aren’t filling the void. What do you do to get back in the swing of things and start over in life? I’m only 24 years old, and I should be living it up, yet I feel like everything is all wrong. — Ashley J.

Dear Jenny:  My wife and I have been together for 15 years. When we married, we were both in great shape and considered a healthy lifestyle a priority. Since then, she has gained at least 50 pounds. We have two beautiful children together, and I understand pregnancy is difficult and can take a toll on a woman’s body. However, it has been several years since the birth of our youngest and my wife has still not lost the baby weight. I try to encourage her to eat healthy, do Weight Watchers or exercise with her friends or me, but she is unwilling to do anything to help lose the weight. She is a wonderful mother and person, but frankly I have lost all sexual attraction to her. How can I help her to get healthy again and be the woman I fell in love with? —Steve from Chicago