Everywhere I look these days, boys seem to have lost their cowboy edge. They get manicures, they want to borrow our facial cream at night, and pretty soon they will demand the right to breast-feed. Okay, obviously that last part is a joke, but you get my point. Boys are turning into softies and I can’t decide yet if I like that or not.
Part of spiritual evolution is for men and woman to both have equal amounts of female and masculine energy. I can easily see and feel both my feminine and masculine energies, both of which make me who I am. Most of the time I would rather play poker with the guys than have any part in teatime with the ladies. I also think chicks are hot, so does that make me more in touch with my masculine side or does it make me bi?
I’ve also had boyfriends admire the good looks of another guy when I’m with them, scratching my head, wondering if they chose the wrong team this time. But this scenario has happened to me numerous times — so I can’t help but wonder if a different type of sexual revolution is really taking place.
With women coming into the workplace as fierce as men and women bringing home the bacon, it doesn’t surprise me that our opposite energies are shifting onto more of an equal playing field. My problem is, as much as I like feminine equality, I’m not sure I’m ready for guys who want flower potpourri in their house versus good, old-fashioned man B.O.
You know what I’m saying? What do you girls and guys think?