Ok, I’m generalizing the word ‘me,’ even though I am a Scorpio and very, very single. The reason why I chose to write about horniness is to discuss the myth that women get hornier with age. Being that I’m now 40, I can give my two cents about sex and aging but also want to hear from you, too.
I know when I was in my twenties I was still trying to figure out my faculties. I didn’t quite know where all the hot spots were, if you know what I’m saying. Plus, I felt like I was trying to work so hard to please my guy instead of relaxing enough to please myself. When I got into my thirties, things dramatically changed. I knew exactly what I liked and didn’t like and I became a bit more selfish in bed, which made me enjoy it instead of faking it. Then I started to educate myself on getting better at it, which made it even more fun to fool around.
Once I hit my late thirties, something happened. I went to my gyno and asked him why the sudden physiological desire to dry hump the back of a chair. I wondered if I was having a hormone imbalance. He laughed and said it was because I was single.
So here lies my question: Do women get hornier with age? Or are we just more confident?
Men, you can answer this too, considering us cougars seem to be drooling all over your man meat.
Let me know what you think.
